Am I a Good Listener

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  1. If my partner says, “We need to talk,” I immediately think of reasons that I am far too busy.
    2. Never Seldom Sometimes Often Always
  2. I tend to finish my partner’s sentences because I know what he/she is going to say
    3. Never Seldom Sometimes Often Always
  3. I focus my attention on what I am going to say next rather than on listening to what my
    4. Never Seldom Sometimes Often Always
  4. I pretend to be interested in what my partner is saying even when I am not.
    5. Never Seldom Sometimes Often Always
  5. When my partner asks for advice, I first clarify what they have said by asking questions or telling them what I heard.
    6. Never Seldom Sometimes Often Always
  6. When my partner offers constructive criticism I become defensive and don’t want to hear what he/she is saying.
    7. Never Seldom Sometimes Often Always
  7. When talking to my partner on the phone, I do other activities at the same time.
    8. Never Seldom Sometimes Often Always
  8. When talking with my partner when we are out for dinner or at a party, I look past my partner at others or to see what else is going on.
    9. Never Seldom Sometimes Often Always
  9. I make eye contact often when talking to my partner.
    10. Never Seldom Sometimes Often Always
  10. I acknowledge my partner’s feelings and consider their points carefully before responding.
    11. Never Seldom Sometimes Often Always